The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

The physical and mental strength displayed at the Olympics reminded me of Stephen Covey’s book “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”.

The habits are broken down into the first 3 which relate to self management and development.

Habits 4 to 6 offer advice on how best to approach our interactions with others.

Habit 7 is “sharpen the saw” which is about self care.

We wouldn’t try to cut down a tree with a blunt, worn out saw and this analogy is used to advise us to be proactive in looking after ourselves. The Olympic athletes are prime examples of this habit.

By investing in sleep, nutrition and activity we can keep ourselves in peak physical condition.

We can take care of our spiritual lives by meditating or spending time in nature.

We choose to maintain mental fitness by being conscious of what we consume in terms of media and reading.

For optimum social interaction, Covey recommends we have authentic, meaningful connections whilst being helpful to others. It was heartening to see the recent support for all athletes, regardless of their level of success.

My copy of the book is quite old but I was pleasantly surprised with how easy to read it is and how relevant it remains in 2021.

If I liked this book, what others should I try?

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Bad Habits

Listening to Ed Sheeran’s new song reminded me of James Clear’s book “Atomic Habits”.

James offers advice to help with fostering desired habits. He describes a method of stacking habits so that certain behaviours follow others without us even having to think about it.

The song “Bad Habits” provides a good example of how this works too, although in this case the stacking is for behaviours described as bad habits.

In my interpretation of the lyrics, going out late brings the character in the song to pubs/clubs where autopilot associations lead him to vices that he knows are bad for him.

The book offers advice on how adopting tiny behaviour changes can lead to greater success and break bad habits.

So cool bat-like character in Ed Sheeran’s new video, if you’re reading this, I recommend you stop and instead invest your time in reading James Clear’s book.

James Clear, if you’re reading this, I recommend you check out the song, it’s lyrics, tune and video are all great.

And Ed Sheeran, if you’re reading this, I think it’s genius that your song implies its unlikely that we’ll break our habits but yet in creating this song you’ve deviated from your usual style and so you’ve inspired us that it is possible to change our patterns.

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