Like many people, I haven’t had a good track record with keeping New Year’s Resolutions. Most years January’s well-judged intentions became February’s forgotten thoughts.
To make things simpler, a number of years ago, I decided on having a “word of the year” rather than a specific resolution. The word was to be a frame of mind for the year, rather than entail any specific target of weight loss or rooms decluttered.
The first word I chose was “acceptance” and I lived that year feeling much calmer than I had before. On occasions where I would previously had my back up or be quick to respond to provocation, I remembered “acceptance” and took more things in my stride.
The following year, my word was “resilience”. When I thought of it, I imagined a cloak of strength around me and it helped me through many challenges.
My word for 2019 was “compassion”. At every encounter, I tried to remember this. Maybe I thought a shop assistant was rude but once the “compassion” mindset kicked in, I considered that he might have been up half the night with a sick child.
2019 felt positive as I enjoyed having the standpoint of believing the best in everyone, rather than being frustrated about shortcomings. Also, I think that by believing the best, I actually experienced that. By showing compassion, I received it back.
My word for 2020 is “authentic”. I am letting my hair go grey. I changed my LinkedIn profile picture to be one where I am wearing my glasses. I have been toying with writing a blog for a few years but always talked myself out of it concerned by how others might judge it. However, this is my 5th instalment and I’m enjoying writing about themes that interest me.
I think “creativity” is going to be my word for 2021. The world is challenging us to be more creative in our approaches to problem solving and I want to rise to that challenge and think about new ways of doing things. Also, I would like to add to my creative hobbies. I have already made a start. The photo attached is my first effort at sewing!
Happy 2021!